Monday, August 6, 2012

Violence, white supremacy and the American mindset


Another day, another shooting.

Random acts of violence seem to be occurring on a regular basis recently, and once again, the country asks itself what are people thinking in the wake of the murder of six Sikh church goers in Milwaukee, by  a white supremacist.

Well, these perpetrators are obviously not thinking very much, and if they are, they've somehow logically concluded that hate is a legitimate mindset and violence is a legitimate solution.

I always ask myself: "How did they get this way."

You can go through the list of usual suspects. Bad parents, bad neighborhoods, bad friends, bad education, society in general, genetics.

But it's worth considering given that most babies don't start out violent. Most kids don't start out violent. Somewhere along the way, something happened that helped reinforce the idea that violence worked as a coping mechanism.

And there's not much one can do about any of the above in any kind systematic way.

Small things can be done along the way. Kids can be taught tolerance at school. They can be taught to settle conflict without violence, without bullying.

But at some point, and this is the scary part, the volume of at-risk kids overwhelms the system. More fall through the cracks. They end up in groups like the white supremacists.

At the growth in at-risk kids to a society that seems to be less willing to deal with them year after year, only building more penitentiaries.

We won't stop crazy incidents like those in Milwaukee or Aurora, Colo., with any program. But we've got to have solutions in place that at least reduce the risk of more and more people falling through the cracks.

The odds will only get worse if we don't.



1 comment:

  1. Bingo! Babies are not born violent or bullies...children pick up on things fast! They see it from home, friends, the environment they are brought up in or other places they are raised in, they see it in the media through certain video games, television shows to movies, also the Internet (this plays a role in pro-violence and pro-hate groups on the web), etc.

    You could study psychology and still try to figure out why people do what they do. Every psychologist who has an opinion on this issue will either differ in their view points or they will overlap with similar characteristics of theses individuals who commit horrible crimes against others. It is complex issue. It is not just one thing in their development, personality and how they get along with others. It is complex!

    What is scary about it is that there are people who commit horrible crimes and some people would never imagine them hurting another human being... and they don't see the red flags!

    These type of individuals have a way of being a good actor in front of everyone. The person who they present to their family, friends and community as, that is not who they really are. That is them being a good actor--putting out this likeable image--we have read stories about serial killers who were involved in the church, involved with politicians and friends with the police who were living a double life. They have husbands or wives and children at home, they have jobs and they go out at night and murder and come home to their family as if nothing happened.

    It is hard to stomach and to understand the complexity of a human who can act kind, charming and compassionate to others (the image they want others to see them as) and then lead this double life where they are hurting and committing violent crimes against community members. It is horrible!

    If someone actually studies their past, they will see characteristics in their childhood, upbringing, teenage years to adulthood where there was some red flags that people missed.

    I truly believe in education! Let us keep educating our communities and the public as a whole. Let us keep an open dialogue and communicate! Communication is so important!

    Remember, there many kids who come from horrible homes and were abused, etc., but they don't end up as killers or committing crimes in their communities. I have seen kids turn their lives around and be the first of their family to go to college and graduate! I wish the media would also focus on the positives on people who have turned their life around and are doing good in their communities. People expected these kids to fail or fall through the cracks and not make anything of themselves. I just love hearing and reading stories where kids thrive on learning, education and they want a better life for them. Those stories make me happy! :)

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